My home is my haven
guidance for Muslim families in achieving harmonious family, mawaddah, and mercy, and tips bring "paradise" in the house. Hopefully this advice in a Friday sermon benefit the entire Muslim family.
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إن الحمد لله نحمده ونستعينه ونستغفره, ونعوذ بالله من شرور أنفسنا ومن سيئات أعمالنا, من يهده الله فلا مضل له ومن يضلل فلا هادي له, أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له, وأشهد أن محمدا عبده ورسوله.
ياأيها الذين ءامنوا اتقوا الله حق تقاته ولا تموتن إلا وأنتم مسلمون
ياأيها الناس اتقوا ربكم الذي خلقكم من نفس واحدة وخلق منها زوجها وبث منهما رجالا كثيرا ونسآء واتقوا الله الذي تسآءلون به والأرحام إن الله كان عليكم رقيبا
ياأيها الذين ءامنوا اتقوا الله وقولوا قولا سديدا. يصلح لكم أعمالكم ويغفر لكم ذنوبكم ومن يطع الله ورسوله فقد فاز فوزا عظيما
أما بعد: فإن أصدق الحديث كتاب الله وخير الهدي هدي محمد صلى الله عليه و سلم وشر الأمور محدثاتها, وكل محدثة بدعة, وكل بدعة ضلالة, وكل ضلالة في النار. اللهم صل على محمد, وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم.
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
The state of heaven which will be entered by those who believe in the End of Days later, was contained in the Book of Allah and the hadiths of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Then, how the image or the state of "Heaven" that exist in this world, especially in our homes? How is the nature of "My house is Surgaku"?
We often witness and perhaps even experienced in our families, in our homes, a situation that makes a narrow chest, tense neck veins, the blood rising to the crown of the head, teeth gemertaknya while mengepalnya hand. That situation caused by various family members who do not act in place. People often say, "My house is like hell, which makes all family members living at home not in it. He is full of doom. Household Ark crashing it. The ideal of the family only lived a mere wishful thinking. What a miserable world "
Strife, taunted each other, selfish, flying saucers often happens, to physical violence coloring trip home away from Vegas mawaddah warahmah.
We all certainly do not want that to happen. However, often members of a household are not able to hold it, and does not have enough stock and guidance from Him to realize mawaddah warahmah happy family, family mirror "My house is Surgaku".
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
At the beginning of the sermon was delivered that Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says,
ياأيها الناس اتقوا ربكم الذي خلقكم من نفس واحدة وخلق منها زوجها وبث منهما رجالا كثيرا ونسآء واتقوا الله الذي تسآءلون به والأرحام إن الله كان عليكم رقيبا.
"O mankind! Fear your Lord who created you from that one, and from it God created his wife; and instead of God propagate both men and women that much. And fear Allah, that the (use) his name you ask each other to each other, and (guard) the relationship of friendship. Verily Allah always watches over you. "(An-Nisa`: 1).
We are present in this noble mosque is the creation of Allaah. We were called by Him to fear of Him. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala also informed that created them also our spouse that each of our wives respectively. Through couples (couples) here, Allaah human propagate vast number of men and women. Association husband and wife who God taqdirkan led to the child, should be on the basis of piety, so the association husband and wife is actually produced children and shalihah righteous. Furthermore, the number of people that a lot of it should keep the friendship, maintain good relations in harmony, since the origin of man is one of the uterus (the same lineage).
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
To keep couples and children, and other family members to remain living in harmony, loving under the pleasure of Allaah (mawaddah warahmah) that it is a manifestation of my house my paradise, then some of these tips deserve to be namely:
First, keep the respective rights and obligations of members of the household.
Allaah has said,
ولهن مثل الذي عليهن بالمعروف وللرجال عليهن درجة والله عزيز حكيم
"And the women have equal rights with obligations under way ma'ruf. But the husband, has a degree of excess rather than his wife. And Allah is All-Mighty, Wise. "(Al-Baqarah: 228).
Prophet sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam has said,
"From Mu'awiya ibn al-Qushayri Haidah narrated that he said, 'I never asked,' O Messenger of Allah, what rights the wife of one of us on her husband? 'He replied,' Should you feed it as you eat, give him as clothing you wear, and do not you hit the face, do not vilify, and ye shall not be invited to speak to him except at home alone '. "(Abu Dawud no.2142, this hadith is hasan saheeh by al-Albani).
He sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam also been said,
ألا إن لكم على نسائكم حقا, ولنسائكم عليكم حقا, فأما حقكم على نسائكم فلا يوطئن فرشكم من تكرهون, ولا يأذن في بيوتكم لمن تكرهون, ألا وحقهن عليكم أن تحسنوا إليهن في كسوتهن وطعامهن.
"Know that you have the right to your wives, and your wives also have the right to yourselves. As for your right to your wives are: They should not let people you do not like to sleep on your bed, and do not allow anyone who displeases you get into your home. While their right to you is: Should you give clothes and food were good to them. "(Reported by at-Tirmidhi no.1161, according to the hadith is hasan Gharib).
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
Second, encourage one another in truth, patience, and sincerity on the basis of compassion and a gentle manner. Word of Allaah,
إن الإنسان لفي خسر. إلا الذين ءامنوا وعملوا الصالحات وتواصوا بالحق وتواصوا بالصبر
"Behold, the man really is in loss, except those who believe and do good deeds and obeying the truth so that the advising counsel and advice in order to fulfill counseled patience." (Al-Asr: 2-3).
فبما رحمة من الله لنت لهم ولو كنت فظا غليظ القلب لانفضوا من حولك فاعف عنهم واستغفر لهم وشاورهم في الأمر فإذا عزمت فتوكل على الله إن الله يحب المتوكلين
"So, due to the grace of Allah ye gentle force against them. Now if you get tough again be rude, they would distance themselves from all around you. Therefore forgive them, ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the affairs. Then when you have determined, then put your trust in God. Allah loves those who put their trust in Him. "(Al-Imran: 159).
One another is a pillar guard family harmony, because humans are creatures who like to forget. If one of the forgotten and the others remind (advising) in a gentle way, then her partner remain in the right path. And this is the desired course together.
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
Third, as spouses and other family members who always want my house is my heaven, noble families because of piety, because of the high degree of faith and knowledgeable, then it ought to always compete to realize Heaven world and the hereafter. As Allaah described below in His Word,
وسارعوا إلى مغفرة من ربكم وجنة عرضها السماوات والأرض أعدت للمتقين. الذين ينفقون في السرآء والضرآء والكاظمين الغيظ والعافين عن الناس والله يحب المحسنين. والذين إذا فعلوا فاحشة أو ظلموا أنفسهم ذكروا الله فاستغفروا لذنوبهم ومن يغفر الذنوب إلا الله ولم يصروا على ما فعلوا وهم يعلمون
"And ye haste to forgiveness from your Lord and to Paradise as wide as the heavens and the earth, prepared for those who fear Allah, (ie) those who spend (freely), whether in time or narrow, and those those who restrain anger and pardon (error) people. Allah loves those who do good. And (also) those who, when working on indecency or wronged their own souls they remember Allah and seek forgiveness for their sins and anyone else who can forgive sins other than Allah. And they do not continue the cruel deeds, are they know. "(Ali Imran: 133-135).
Couples and other family members who want to realize the heaven world and the hereafter, which embodies my house my paradise, then they should always:
1. berinfak, either in time or in adversity.
2. Holding anger.
3. Forgive the mistakes of others.
4. repent.
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
Fourth, members of my family can realize my heaven are those who continue to help and cooperate in righteousness and piety. They will continue to get rid of evil, hostility, and other sinful acts. Allaah says,
وتعاونوا على البر والتقوى ولاتعاونوا على الإثم والعدوان واتقوا الله إن الله شديد العقاب
"And please menolonglah you in the (working) righteousness and piety, and do please help in sin and transgression. And fear ye Allah, verily Allah is severe in punishment. "(Al-Ma`idah: 2).
Based on cooperation and mutual help on the basis of virtue and piety that is, any emergence of problematic family, will be overcome, faced, and solved with a solution that is fun and not end up with pathetic.
That's a bit tips, God willing, we can deliver all the family leads to true love, the love of the Creator. Tips that if we can make it happen, hopefully can help to achieve His pleasure alone, however our circumstances. That tips that can lead us to happiness intrinsic world to the hereafter. Happiness can only be achieved by people who truly believe, fear Allah, and Islamic life.
بارك الله لي ولكم في القرآن الكريم وجعلنا الله من الذين يستمعون القول فيتبعون أحسنه. أقول قولي هذا وأستغفر الله لي ولكم.
[Second Sermon]
الحمد لله الذي أرسل رسوله بالهدى ودين الحق ليظهره على الدين كله ولو كره المشركون, أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وأشهد أن محمدا عبده ورسوله
قال الله تعالى: ياأيها الذين ءامنوا اتقوا الله حق تقاته ولا تموتن إلا وأنتم مسلمون
اللهم صل على محمد وعلى آله وأصحابه أجمعين. أما بعد:
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
In the second sermon, the preacher was about to conclude the discussion on the first sermon. Indeed, to realize my picture my paradise, there are some tips that should we take in wading through home life, namely:
First, should any member of the household (husband, wife, children, and other family members if it is a large family) can maintain the rights and obligations of each in a balanced and full sincerity, patience, and determination, in accordance with the position of each in the family.
Second, mutual counsel advising in truth, patience, and sincerity on the basis of compassion and a gentle manner.
Third, as spouses and other family members who always want my house is my heaven, noble families because of piety, because of the high degree of faith and knowledgeable, then it ought to always compete to create heaven on earth and hereafter.
Fourth, members of my family can realize my heaven are those who continue to help and cooperate in righteousness and piety. They will continue to get rid of evil, hostility, and other sinful acts.
Ark sailing toward goals
Hopeful smile
Storms roll hits
Dropping ark drove the universe
Towards lasting love in paradise
Nan awaited lover adored
Indeed, true happiness, sincere love of pure, eternal welfare are just there on the side of the Lord of all the worlds. Therefore, should every believer, to keep trying to grab it with sincerity and seriousness of capital in the example of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam.
Happiness in this world, the majority of people after him, as well forget about the afterlife, only to be obtained while and that's a mirage. Deceptive happiness, while, a heartbeat, but ends with a prolonged misery. Only the spy who dazzled with sparkling world is to be fooled by a cursory view it. Therefore, be careful in the life of this world is one of the character of the people who fear Allah, so do not be fooled by the glitter of the world.
Remember, that the pleasures of the world is a hoax. His Word,
اعلموا أنما الحياة الدنيا لعب ولهو وزينة وتفاخر بينكم وتكاثر في الأموال والأولاد كمثل غيث أعجب الكفار نباته ثم يهيج فتراه مصفرا ثم يكون حطاما وفي الأخرة عذاب شديد ومغفرة من الله ورضوان وماالحياة الدنيآ إلا متاع الغرور
"Know that the life of the world is but play and amusement, pomp and glorify oneself between you and boast about the amount of wealth and children, like the rain that the plants correlaon-gumkan farmers; then plant it becomes dry and you see the color yellow and then destroyed. And in the Hereafter (later) there is a severe penalty and forgiveness from Allah and His keridha late. And the life of this world is nothing but a deceptive pleasure. "(Al-Hadid: 20).
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
Let us end this short sermon by beating hearts, thoughts, and feelings, we lowered ourselves as low as possible in the presence of the Lord of all the worlds, while asking him that would Allaah is pleased to grant our prayers, facilitate affairs we are in reach of His love and pleasure, help us in obedience to Him and follow the example of His Prophet, give us the strength to get rid of evil of ourselves and our families, and our communities.
guidance for Muslim families in achieving harmonious family, mawaddah, and mercy, and tips bring "paradise" in the house. Hopefully this advice in a Friday sermon benefit the entire Muslim family.
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إن الحمد لله نحمده ونستعينه ونستغفره, ونعوذ بالله من شرور أنفسنا ومن سيئات أعمالنا, من يهده الله فلا مضل له ومن يضلل فلا هادي له, أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له, وأشهد أن محمدا عبده ورسوله.
ياأيها الذين ءامنوا اتقوا الله حق تقاته ولا تموتن إلا وأنتم مسلمون
ياأيها الناس اتقوا ربكم الذي خلقكم من نفس واحدة وخلق منها زوجها وبث منهما رجالا كثيرا ونسآء واتقوا الله الذي تسآءلون به والأرحام إن الله كان عليكم رقيبا
ياأيها الذين ءامنوا اتقوا الله وقولوا قولا سديدا. يصلح لكم أعمالكم ويغفر لكم ذنوبكم ومن يطع الله ورسوله فقد فاز فوزا عظيما
أما بعد: فإن أصدق الحديث كتاب الله وخير الهدي هدي محمد صلى الله عليه و سلم وشر الأمور محدثاتها, وكل محدثة بدعة, وكل بدعة ضلالة, وكل ضلالة في النار. اللهم صل على محمد, وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم.
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
The state of heaven which will be entered by those who believe in the End of Days later, was contained in the Book of Allah and the hadiths of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Then, how the image or the state of "Heaven" that exist in this world, especially in our homes? How is the nature of "My house is Surgaku"?
We often witness and perhaps even experienced in our families, in our homes, a situation that makes a narrow chest, tense neck veins, the blood rising to the crown of the head, teeth gemertaknya while mengepalnya hand. That situation caused by various family members who do not act in place. People often say, "My house is like hell, which makes all family members living at home not in it. He is full of doom. Household Ark crashing it. The ideal of the family only lived a mere wishful thinking. What a miserable world "
Strife, taunted each other, selfish, flying saucers often happens, to physical violence coloring trip home away from Vegas mawaddah warahmah.
We all certainly do not want that to happen. However, often members of a household are not able to hold it, and does not have enough stock and guidance from Him to realize mawaddah warahmah happy family, family mirror "My house is Surgaku".
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
At the beginning of the sermon was delivered that Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says,
ياأيها الناس اتقوا ربكم الذي خلقكم من نفس واحدة وخلق منها زوجها وبث منهما رجالا كثيرا ونسآء واتقوا الله الذي تسآءلون به والأرحام إن الله كان عليكم رقيبا.
"O mankind! Fear your Lord who created you from that one, and from it God created his wife; and instead of God propagate both men and women that much. And fear Allah, that the (use) his name you ask each other to each other, and (guard) the relationship of friendship. Verily Allah always watches over you. "(An-Nisa`: 1).
We are present in this noble mosque is the creation of Allaah. We were called by Him to fear of Him. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala also informed that created them also our spouse that each of our wives respectively. Through couples (couples) here, Allaah human propagate vast number of men and women. Association husband and wife who God taqdirkan led to the child, should be on the basis of piety, so the association husband and wife is actually produced children and shalihah righteous. Furthermore, the number of people that a lot of it should keep the friendship, maintain good relations in harmony, since the origin of man is one of the uterus (the same lineage).
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
To keep couples and children, and other family members to remain living in harmony, loving under the pleasure of Allaah (mawaddah warahmah) that it is a manifestation of my house my paradise, then some of these tips deserve to be namely:
First, keep the respective rights and obligations of members of the household.
Allaah has said,
ولهن مثل الذي عليهن بالمعروف وللرجال عليهن درجة والله عزيز حكيم
"And the women have equal rights with obligations under way ma'ruf. But the husband, has a degree of excess rather than his wife. And Allah is All-Mighty, Wise. "(Al-Baqarah: 228).
Prophet sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam has said,
"From Mu'awiya ibn al-Qushayri Haidah narrated that he said, 'I never asked,' O Messenger of Allah, what rights the wife of one of us on her husband? 'He replied,' Should you feed it as you eat, give him as clothing you wear, and do not you hit the face, do not vilify, and ye shall not be invited to speak to him except at home alone '. "(Abu Dawud no.2142, this hadith is hasan saheeh by al-Albani).
He sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam also been said,
ألا إن لكم على نسائكم حقا, ولنسائكم عليكم حقا, فأما حقكم على نسائكم فلا يوطئن فرشكم من تكرهون, ولا يأذن في بيوتكم لمن تكرهون, ألا وحقهن عليكم أن تحسنوا إليهن في كسوتهن وطعامهن.
"Know that you have the right to your wives, and your wives also have the right to yourselves. As for your right to your wives are: They should not let people you do not like to sleep on your bed, and do not allow anyone who displeases you get into your home. While their right to you is: Should you give clothes and food were good to them. "(Reported by at-Tirmidhi no.1161, according to the hadith is hasan Gharib).
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
Second, encourage one another in truth, patience, and sincerity on the basis of compassion and a gentle manner. Word of Allaah,
إن الإنسان لفي خسر. إلا الذين ءامنوا وعملوا الصالحات وتواصوا بالحق وتواصوا بالصبر
"Behold, the man really is in loss, except those who believe and do good deeds and obeying the truth so that the advising counsel and advice in order to fulfill counseled patience." (Al-Asr: 2-3).
فبما رحمة من الله لنت لهم ولو كنت فظا غليظ القلب لانفضوا من حولك فاعف عنهم واستغفر لهم وشاورهم في الأمر فإذا عزمت فتوكل على الله إن الله يحب المتوكلين
"So, due to the grace of Allah ye gentle force against them. Now if you get tough again be rude, they would distance themselves from all around you. Therefore forgive them, ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the affairs. Then when you have determined, then put your trust in God. Allah loves those who put their trust in Him. "(Al-Imran: 159).
One another is a pillar guard family harmony, because humans are creatures who like to forget. If one of the forgotten and the others remind (advising) in a gentle way, then her partner remain in the right path. And this is the desired course together.
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
Third, as spouses and other family members who always want my house is my heaven, noble families because of piety, because of the high degree of faith and knowledgeable, then it ought to always compete to realize Heaven world and the hereafter. As Allaah described below in His Word,
وسارعوا إلى مغفرة من ربكم وجنة عرضها السماوات والأرض أعدت للمتقين. الذين ينفقون في السرآء والضرآء والكاظمين الغيظ والعافين عن الناس والله يحب المحسنين. والذين إذا فعلوا فاحشة أو ظلموا أنفسهم ذكروا الله فاستغفروا لذنوبهم ومن يغفر الذنوب إلا الله ولم يصروا على ما فعلوا وهم يعلمون
"And ye haste to forgiveness from your Lord and to Paradise as wide as the heavens and the earth, prepared for those who fear Allah, (ie) those who spend (freely), whether in time or narrow, and those those who restrain anger and pardon (error) people. Allah loves those who do good. And (also) those who, when working on indecency or wronged their own souls they remember Allah and seek forgiveness for their sins and anyone else who can forgive sins other than Allah. And they do not continue the cruel deeds, are they know. "(Ali Imran: 133-135).
Couples and other family members who want to realize the heaven world and the hereafter, which embodies my house my paradise, then they should always:
1. berinfak, either in time or in adversity.
2. Holding anger.
3. Forgive the mistakes of others.
4. repent.
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
Fourth, members of my family can realize my heaven are those who continue to help and cooperate in righteousness and piety. They will continue to get rid of evil, hostility, and other sinful acts. Allaah says,
وتعاونوا على البر والتقوى ولاتعاونوا على الإثم والعدوان واتقوا الله إن الله شديد العقاب
"And please menolonglah you in the (working) righteousness and piety, and do please help in sin and transgression. And fear ye Allah, verily Allah is severe in punishment. "(Al-Ma`idah: 2).
Based on cooperation and mutual help on the basis of virtue and piety that is, any emergence of problematic family, will be overcome, faced, and solved with a solution that is fun and not end up with pathetic.
That's a bit tips, God willing, we can deliver all the family leads to true love, the love of the Creator. Tips that if we can make it happen, hopefully can help to achieve His pleasure alone, however our circumstances. That tips that can lead us to happiness intrinsic world to the hereafter. Happiness can only be achieved by people who truly believe, fear Allah, and Islamic life.
بارك الله لي ولكم في القرآن الكريم وجعلنا الله من الذين يستمعون القول فيتبعون أحسنه. أقول قولي هذا وأستغفر الله لي ولكم.
[Second Sermon]
الحمد لله الذي أرسل رسوله بالهدى ودين الحق ليظهره على الدين كله ولو كره المشركون, أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وأشهد أن محمدا عبده ورسوله
قال الله تعالى: ياأيها الذين ءامنوا اتقوا الله حق تقاته ولا تموتن إلا وأنتم مسلمون
اللهم صل على محمد وعلى آله وأصحابه أجمعين. أما بعد:
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
In the second sermon, the preacher was about to conclude the discussion on the first sermon. Indeed, to realize my picture my paradise, there are some tips that should we take in wading through home life, namely:
First, should any member of the household (husband, wife, children, and other family members if it is a large family) can maintain the rights and obligations of each in a balanced and full sincerity, patience, and determination, in accordance with the position of each in the family.
Second, mutual counsel advising in truth, patience, and sincerity on the basis of compassion and a gentle manner.
Third, as spouses and other family members who always want my house is my heaven, noble families because of piety, because of the high degree of faith and knowledgeable, then it ought to always compete to create heaven on earth and hereafter.
Fourth, members of my family can realize my heaven are those who continue to help and cooperate in righteousness and piety. They will continue to get rid of evil, hostility, and other sinful acts.
Ark sailing toward goals
Hopeful smile
Storms roll hits
Dropping ark drove the universe
Towards lasting love in paradise
Nan awaited lover adored
Indeed, true happiness, sincere love of pure, eternal welfare are just there on the side of the Lord of all the worlds. Therefore, should every believer, to keep trying to grab it with sincerity and seriousness of capital in the example of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam.
Happiness in this world, the majority of people after him, as well forget about the afterlife, only to be obtained while and that's a mirage. Deceptive happiness, while, a heartbeat, but ends with a prolonged misery. Only the spy who dazzled with sparkling world is to be fooled by a cursory view it. Therefore, be careful in the life of this world is one of the character of the people who fear Allah, so do not be fooled by the glitter of the world.
Remember, that the pleasures of the world is a hoax. His Word,
اعلموا أنما الحياة الدنيا لعب ولهو وزينة وتفاخر بينكم وتكاثر في الأموال والأولاد كمثل غيث أعجب الكفار نباته ثم يهيج فتراه مصفرا ثم يكون حطاما وفي الأخرة عذاب شديد ومغفرة من الله ورضوان وماالحياة الدنيآ إلا متاع الغرور
"Know that the life of the world is but play and amusement, pomp and glorify oneself between you and boast about the amount of wealth and children, like the rain that the plants correlaon-gumkan farmers; then plant it becomes dry and you see the color yellow and then destroyed. And in the Hereafter (later) there is a severe penalty and forgiveness from Allah and His keridha late. And the life of this world is nothing but a deceptive pleasure. "(Al-Hadid: 20).
Jamaat Friday Rahimakumullah
Let us end this short sermon by beating hearts, thoughts, and feelings, we lowered ourselves as low as possible in the presence of the Lord of all the worlds, while asking him that would Allaah is pleased to grant our prayers, facilitate affairs we are in reach of His love and pleasure, help us in obedience to Him and follow the example of His Prophet, give us the strength to get rid of evil of ourselves and our families, and our communities.
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